Truly and indeed, everything will be okay because everything is okay. It really is! Regardless of what has just occurred or is going on in your life at present, everything that happens in your life happens for a reason and happens for the best or your greater good. Start believing this right now if you haven't been, for our thoughts really do create our reality.
 It's not what happens to us, but how we chose to respond to what happens to us. In any and everything that happens to us, we always have a choice in the matter pertaining to how we will respond.
Most people get caught up on perception pertaining to a thing or occurrence and react to the perception. But perception is not reality.
You just got fired from your job? Look at it like this, you have just been freed up for the job you really want, or that break your body has been longing for, or that period to take that long-awaited leap of faith into your life's purpose that is your heart's desire. Always look for the best in a situation. You have the choice and free will to do so. And remember, you can and will find another job. Just believe and know you can and will!
You just got divorced from your husband or wife? You love the person and still care about the person despite hard feelings (anger, bitterness, sadness, and frustration) lingering in your heart and mind, but the truth of the matter is that the relationship was no good for you guys and/or served its purpose and ran its course. You guys came together to fulfill a purpose (to have children, learn a life lesson or lessons, experience marriage, etc.) and that purpose has been fulfilled and now it's time to move on. That person was only a minor soul mate who served in the role to help prepare you for your ultimate and major soul mate.
Look back on all the past relationships you have had. Had others not ended, you would not have been free to enter into the next relationship with the next person.
Just because an aspect of the relationship ends, doesn't mean the love and care and other feelings have to end. Keep the good and dump the bad for the bad does not serve you and today we no longer have to accept the bad with the good. So focus only on the good you experienced with the person for what we focus on magnifies. If we only focus on the bad or negative, the bad or negative will magnify and so will our negative emotions and we will stay stuck in a vacuum of negativity and stifle our growth.
And yes, only an aspect of the relationship ends because you will always be connected to every person you meet and especially those persons you were sexually intimate with. This happens at the level of the chakra cords that are located in the major and minor chakras. Relationship connections primarily take place at the second and fourth charkas, the relationship and heart-love centers respectively.
Each relationship prepares you for your ultimate relationship and if that relationship has not come yet, know that it is coming just as all of your past relationships have come. So thank your former mate and the situation (divorce, break up) that has allowed you to be freed up in order to be available for a better relationship that is soon coming to you; and if you are wise you won't immediately jump into another relationship (on the rebound) but begin to work on yourself (your attributes or qualities, emotional state, mental state, spirituality, etc.). You can always attain another mate and relationship and you eventually will (if you just believe and know it).
Okay, somebody just stole your car? Look at it in the sense that whoever stole your car freed you up to get a newer and better car. And if you can't immediately get another car and now have to walk and/or use public transportation, look at this in the sense that you have been freed up to do something you need and should be doing. By walking or riding the bus or train, perhaps you will meet someone you need to meet that you probably would not meet if you were in a car. Maybe there's a place you will discover by walking or by riding the bus or train. Maybe riding public transportation will allow you to save the necessary monies to purchase your next car and in the mean time, you don't have to worry about high gas prices, car maintenance, parking and/or traffic tickets, gridlock, road rage, and parking.
Always look for the good in a situation and you will find it. Always know that you can and will get another car.
 You just contracted genital herpes? Maybe you have been needing to become healthier for a while now, but you ignored this due to your routine and mechanical lifestyle. But now with genital herpes (which you can't and don't want to tolerate), you slow your roll and begin taking an active approach to seeking out a cure which you learn comes from a healthier diet and lifestyle, positive thinking and mental attitude, and change of environment and thus begin your journey to a healthier lifestyle (which includes diet) and positive mental approach to life and life's situations.
In addition, you learn that genital herpes conveys a much needed lesson on a metaphysical, emotional, spiritual, and mental level pertaining to sexual and religious belief systems.
Maybe you have been feeling guilty, shameful, and/or fearful about your past sexual escapades, abortions, miscarriages, sexual abuses, sexual proclivities and/or lifestyle choices and the genital herpes snatches your attention into this area so that you can finally deal with issues you have been suppressing and avoiding for numerous years.
Looking at things in this sense, the genital herpes has helped you to do some necessary housecleaning; and plus, it's not so bad because genital herpes, like all other so-called incurable diseases, is 100% healable or curable despite what Western medical doctors may have told you due to the programming they received in medical school.
God and the human body can heal itself from any disease or pathology. Your life is not over with because of genital herpes. Actually, it's just beginning whether you know it or not. It is a situation of the proverbial saying that God works in mysterious ways.
You are involved in a legal matter and soon have to go to court? Is this really a bad thing? Remember, you have choice in how you perceive and respond to things.
If you are being brought to court to be sued or prosecuted, know that external situations reflect internal or inner situations. If you have a problem within man's law or legal system, it is usually a reflection of an inner problem with God or Divine/Natural/Universal law.
Have you been violating God's law unknowingly or consciously? Have you been violating Universal law unknowingly or consciously? Have you been "judging" yourself or someone else on a subtle level? Have you been violating the laws of biology pertaining to your body? Have you been unknowingly or consciously treading on the rights of other people?
Legal matters should make us look at ourselves inwardly pertaining to situations of honesty, equity or justice, being fair, being unbiased and non-prejudiced; respecting the rights and property of others, and living righteously.
You just got evicted or your house just went into foreclosure? Well, maybe it is time for you to recognize what truly constitutes home. Maybe you were living above your means and stressing and really couldn't enjoy the house and thus could not really enjoy life. You were there, but you weren't there. Maybe less space is what you need in order to free up some monies so you can do some of the things you have desired to do. And maybe it was just time for you to move on and relocate yourself to an area that has an energy or aura more conducive, constructive and compatible to your spiritual growth. Home is a reflection of self and when you become secure within your self, you can never be evicted or removed. External situations reflect inner situations.
Are your wages being garnished by the IRS or the Franchise Tax Board? Maybe it is time for you to deal with your poverty or lack consciousness or how you have been stealing from yourself in some fashion. Have you been taking time away from yourself and giving it to the Matrix? If the government is stealing from you on any level, you have to be stealing from yourself on some level. The outer reflects the inner!
You just had a miscarriage, perhaps for the second or third straight time? Maybe your body is trying to send you a message that you need to seriously address the health of your womb and female chamber. Maybe you have subtle emotions of guilt, perhaps from past abortions or sexual abuses or engagements. Perhaps you have fear of being able to provide for and take care of a child.
Look at it in this sense - the child (soul) is sending you a message to properly get ready for it when it decides to come to full term in a future pregnancy. Remember, an embryo or fetus that dies or stops growing in the uterus and is subsequently expelled or removed is not the soul. A miscarriage doesn't affect the soul. The soul cannot learn any lessons as an embryo or fetus. The soul of your child cannot die. Remember that the flesh is just a vehicle for the soul, so just because you lose the flesh (vehicle) doesn't mean you lose the soul.
So cheer up and bounce back! Become health-conscious. Take better care of your womb. Select the right man/mate to conceive a child with.
Djehuty, what about rape? Can you actually say that rape occurs for the better of a person?
Because of our Matrix-induced software that has programmed our conscience, you can't actually go around telling the average rape victim that his or her rape took place for the better or their greater good, though a lesson and good actually comes out of every life situation if we are wise enough to extract such.
Most people don't understand life and it's dynamics because they are ignorant to paranormal dynamics, metaphysics, and quantum physics. Everything that happens to a person does so because the person chose such actions or occurrences on the Other Side before incarnating into the flesh body.
The problem is, when we get here in the flesh, we forget about what we chose before incarnating. On the Other Side, we don't look at Earth occurrences as good or bad, only as lessons for the benefit of the soul's growth and evolution.
The Matrix gave you your conscience. Consciousness is replaced within the Matrix with conscience. You got your conscience from the society. You were not born with it. You were born conscious and then killed (mentally and spiritually) by just about everyone (parents, relatives, teachers, religious leaders, etc.) and everything (church/religious institution, school, government) that allegedly loved and cared about you and was supposed to protect you.
We choose certain life events that will best give us the necessary experience so as to extract the necessary life lessons for the purpose of the soul's growth or evolution.
On the flip side of the spiritual token, there's karma and karmic debts to pay as well. The person that rapes (in a past lifetime via choice predicated upon thought/s) must experience rape so as to learn the lesson and grow. Every action and reaction is predicated upon thought. Vibration is always present. Rapist and raped person always resonate on the same vibrational level as explained by Esther Hicks. The desire "to" rape and the desire "not to" be raped vibrate harmonically whether people know it or not. Unfortunately, the Universe and subconscious mind doesn't care about our ignorance down here. So what you don't know can, will, and does usually hurt you.
Don't get mad at God or the Universe because of the above! If you are going to get mad at anyone it should be your so-called religious and spiritual leaders and guides, school teachers, and parents who have not and who are not teaching you the spiritual laws and lessons of the Universe. It is the quantum physicists, metaphysicians, and so-called New Age people whom you were told to shun and ignore who are teaching you such beneficial laws and lessons.
Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP) teaches us that the Universe and the subconscious mind does not process negative language so the words "not", "no", "non" and "don't" are not processed, but are neutralized; so the thing we are not desiring is actually being desired. The mind has to first process the opposite of the thing not desired. For the mind to process not being raped, it first will picture being raped. This is why when someone tells you to not worry about something, the first thing you do in your mind is picture the thing you are being told not to worry about. If I tell you don't think about going to jail, your mind will actually picture or project on its screen yourself going to jail. This is why you are now being taught on a mass level to only think about positive things and/or only what you want or desire. The Universe and subconscious mind only processes positive language, so you must learn or continue to learn to consciously be, think, speak, and live positive.
The experience of rape will undoubtedly give a person some serious work to do on self. Serious healing is necessary here.
If we believe that God's hand is over everything, does this exclude the perceived and so-called bad things such as rape, violence, abuse, and murder? Are God's hands only over the good and the good things that happen to us? Isaiah the Biblical prophet says in Chapter 45:7 of the Book of Isaiah: "I [God] make peace and create evil." Perceived evil evidently is within the polarity of things.
At the end of the day it all boils down to perception and I say that regardless of what happens to you in life, the thing happened for a reason, for there are no accidents in life. I believe everything that happens to us, good or bad, happens for the best and for our greater good.
So regardless of what you may be going through or experiencing in your life at present, you need to know that everything will be okay because everything is okay. That's right, RIGHT NOW everything is okay!
I say everything will be okay which is actually future tense because everything is okay in the moment, which is present tense. People have a tendency to look toward the future more so than the present. Today shapes tomorrow and if things are okay today (THE PRESENT), and they are, then things have to be okay tomorrow or in the future, and they will!
Whatever it is you are going through at present, simply remember to stay positive and keep a positive mental attitude and outlook, be grateful for all that you have, count your blessings, have faith in victory in the end, know that the situation or event is helping to reveal your true character and working for your greater good, and most importantly, that you are learning a very valuable life lesson.
Focus only on good and you will reap good; and if you choose to focus on the bad or negative then you surely will reap bad or negative.
Everything is okay! Things always are! So let go of worrying. Hand your worries over to God and put a smile on your face and go and have some fun.
A day will come whereby you'll look back on the present situation at hand and just laugh. Whatever the thing or situation at hand may be, it will soon pass.
Peace and Love be unto you!
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