There are people who do not enjoy sex??!!

[childofbast]

Hi folks. I am in a state of shock. I met someone who doesn't enjoy sex!!! Sex is almost as natural to me as breathing and without it, I could die! I'm not even sure I understand how it's even possible to not be able to enjoy it.  Now it's one thing to have a partner who isn't hittin it right, but this sister told me that she doesn't feel anything. Ever!! No matter her partner's size or experience, she doesn't feel it. Clitoral stimulation is pretty much her only option. What does that even mean? Is this common? I'm so sad for her. Somebody please tell me how to help this sister!!!!!!!!!! 

[Ubasti]

I know a male the same way. Ive been trying to find out answers for the past 6 years. He says he doesnt have to have it. Just dont need it. Doesnt understand why others desire it so much. I hope you find your answers.

[Kwabena]

Of the many things I could say, all i'll say is this...

The last time I "met up" with a sistah with this experience, I gave her a time to remember for ages, and she dropped her husband like a bad habit! Matta fact, that happened several times to be real, but that's all i'm gonna say...

Don't get Hooked on the Looks!

[essenceofgenius]

based on what others that i have met who are this way, they never really had a partner who was capable of pleasing them so they didnt enjoy it and as a result did not crave it.

[Ezkeel]

There body is obviously not functioning properly.
They need to clean out and get their chakras balanced!

[MATHYOU]

oh my goodness.....sumone doesn't enjoy sex??

are you serious?

lol

eye know people sick of my Dr. Afrika-izm's but he says that its natural for women to react negatively to sex

eye know sum people who don't like sex and its because they been treated shitty their whole life...chakra imbalances and stuff...."on the front line theres casualties in the line and the POW's get left behind mentally scarred for life"

theres also genious motherfuckers that are so wrapped up in whatever they are doing that they don't give two fucks about sex

Miles Davis said that John Coltrane would practice so much there could be a naked woman in front of him and he wouldn't even pay her any attention

the human ceen Gods of the Bible and Quran aren't particularily interested in sex either

[Ezkeel]

Some spiritual people are asexual but most folks are just sick!

[UmiLove]

I believe sexual fulfillment is mental and physical and sometimes the mind is so powerful it overpowers the physical. I have gone months without sex, then the thought would pop in my mind like "Damn I haven't had none in a while". If my mind is preoccupied with other things I don't want sex nor is it enjoyable to me if I do.

I think it also has to do with your partner, cause if one don't hit it right you may not know what good sex is to want to have it any other way. Movies, TV and music can make sex look and sound real good, then you never come across that shit cause you got a partner who can't put it down or isn't open that can turn you off as well.

She needs to try and understand what is keeping her from enjoying sex, was she ever raped? molested? physical dysfunctions? Maybe she doesn't like her body, who knows.

[Djehuty-M]

Tragic!!!!!! She just needs to meet the right dude who has the knowledge of using sex to correct her chakraic imbalances and perform other sexual healing. The vagina (and penis) are actually programmed to enjoy sex. I'll have to cover this in Sex-u-cation, Vol. 2

[UmiLove]

Tragic!!!!!! She just needs to meet the right dude who has the knowledge of using sex to correct her chakraic imbalances and perform other sexual healing. The vagina (and penis) are actually programmed to enjoy sex. I'll have to cover this in Sex-u-cation, Vol. 2

Where they at? Lol