Remember the famous talk about all things sex, bodily changes, puberty, and all that jazz? You probably never felt more uncomfortable, but it was only to inform you about the coming changes in your life. The conversation can change for women around middle school, given that menstrual cycles occur around then.
There is a lot to learn and a lot to inform about menstrual cycles. Some people are told correct information, while others gather information from rumors and believe whatever they hear. For example, boys may think women bleed forever and attract bears. This is simply not the case and we are here to set the record straight, emphasizing six period myths that everyone needs to forget.
It’s OK To Dismiss Feelings While On Your Period
There is a physical change in a woman’s body while she is on her period. In the days leading up to menstruation, levels of estrogen plummet and progesterone levels increase. Estrogen is linked to serotonin, the happy hormone, and progesterone is linked to the area of the brain associated with anxiety, depression, and fear. While progesterone may depress some emotions, it does have a mood-balancing effect. Don’t write off drastic mood changes as “just hormones;” rather, mood changes that happen because of hormones are very real. That should not invalidate anyone’s feelings!
Period Blood Is Dirty Blood
It’s a complete myth, and false way of thinking, to think that period blood is dirty blood. It is not blood that the body rejects, nor is it a way to flush out toxins. Think of period blood as evolved vaginal secretion, containing a bit of blood, uterine tissue, mucus lining, and bacteria. That does not change whether a woman can or cannot have sex. It simply means that period blood is different from blood that runs through veins. It is actually less concentrated blood and has fewer blood cells than traditional blood.
Women Are Always On “That Time Of The Month”
To clear things up, a woman’s menstrual cycle is not the same as her period. Menstruation refers to the time that a woman bleeds, while a menstrual cycle is the entire time from the start of one period to the next. Some women’s cycles are longer, while others can be shorter. Travel, weight fluctuation, emotions, medications, and more can affect when a woman’s period occurs. Comments like “women are always on their time of the month” are both inaccurate and not appreciated. Just like every woman, every period is unique.
Period Is Pain Is Just Like Anything You’ve Experienced
Headaches and hitting your knee on the couch do not compare to the pain a woman experiences during her period. Some women have to call out of work, curl up in bed, or pray that the cramps will subside. That is called dysmenorrhea, and about 20% of women have it so severe that it interferes with daily activities. The pain makes it difficult to concentrate, causes anxiety, and makes everything unpleasant. It is unfair to compare it to regular pain that people experience on a daily basis.
Hormones Define Women
For years, women have been accused of being too “hormonal” all the time. Some men equate the feelings women have to feelings of hysteria, as though it is some sort of illness. That does not explain female behavior because everyone has hormones and nobody likes them to be messed with. One study on male contraception was discontinued because male participants could not handle the side effects of injection pain, acne, and emotional issues. Women accept those same side effects taking various forms of birth control, even if it negatively affects them.
Periods Are Shameful
End the conversation that periods are gross, shameful, or dirty and they won’t be such a “crisis.” The truth is that this “shame” is ingrained into society, as though it is a huge embarrassment that women must overcome to enter society. There is no need to whisper about the need for a tampon or pad. Periods are normal, not out of the ordinary. Ditch the stigma and change this cycle (pardon the pun) to encourage positive talk about periods and menstrual cycles.
Vincent Stevens is the senior content writer at Dherbs. As a fitness and health and wellness enthusiast, he enjoys covering a variety of topics, including the latest health, fitness, beauty, and lifestyle trends. His goal is to inform people of different ways they can improve their overall health, which aligns with Dherbs’ core values. He received his bachelor’s degree in creative writing from the University of Redlands, graduating summa cum laude. He lives in Los Angeles, CA.
