Yes, you can have your cake and eat it too, if you believe and know you can! You can have whatever you want, if you believe and know it! Belief and knowing is the key. Belief is enhanced by knowing, knowing in a subjective sense. So if you know what you want and believe you can have it, then you will get it.
Negativity
For many people, negativity has been successfully programmed into their subconscious. Many people allow themselves to believe that they can’t get what they want. They believe they can’t be married and happy, that they can have money and be spiritually filled, that they can follow their heart and still make money, and so many other things. Most people don’t believe that they can have two great things at the same time. They are conditioned to understand that they must make sacrifices. In order to have one great thing, you must give up another great thing. This isn’t the case.
When you constantly tell yourself that you are “no good”, you are recording this negative statement into the conscious mind. After a while, the negative thought is programmed in your mind and goes to the realm of the subconscious. You now have a “one track mind” that only plays one mode – negativity. Soon, you’ll actually do things and have things occur that actually show how undeserving you are, and it’s all because of your own thoughts. By programming the negative statement, the universe and subconscious mind deliver the physical equivalent.
Choices
Some people unwisely choose to believe negative things, especially about themselves, other people, and the world. These people don’t realize that their negative thoughts may actually attract more negativity. All energy is cyclical and that means whatever you send out into the Universe will come back to you.
While we choose what to think about and what to believe, most people choose to think negative thoughts despite the fact that it offers no incentive or benefit. It actually hinders your ability to live a life full of happiness and opportunity.
Some people actually embrace negativity all the time. They choose to live with a negative attitude.
People can choose to dwell on the negative but they are also free to positive changes by making healthy choices. Change your negative thoughts into positive ones. It is really simple as that. Exercise your freedom of choice and start thinking more positively.
Language
When you tell yourself that you can’t have your cake and eat it too, you program yourself to come up short. This statement actually denotes unworthiness. Why are you unworthy? Who taught you to think like this? Who taught you to believe this?
Notice people’s language around you, and you’ll see how negatively we speak to one another. “You can’t fight city hall and win! You can’t win. You can’t win for losing! You can’t heal from an incurable disease! You can’t beat the system!”
If more people thought, believed, and said, “you can fight city hall and win! You can heal from a so-called incurable disease! You can beat the system! You can win!”, then more people would actually experience these things.
If you say a something enough times, you will come to believe it and eventually act upon it. Acting upon a thought will lead to you to invaluable experiences and lessons that develop knowledge. When your belief is predicated upon knowing, you become empowered. Belief predicated upon knowing empowers you to act.
Change The Dialog
When you act on the belief and knowing that you can have your cake and eat it too, you’ll experience it. It’s an immutable law that all starts in the mind.
Be confident in your beliefs, they belong to you only. Decide to make positive choices in life and present yourself positively to the world. You will experience things that you never thought were possible.
When you see yourself as having the power over your own life, then you will be able to have your cake and eat it too. If you think positively, you will see that you have control over your marriage or relationship, job, status, spirituality, or income.
Become the leader of your life’s dreams and ambitions. Decorate your life and enjoy the people who share it with you.
Remember, you can have your cake and it eat it too. Well, at least if you believe you can.
Thank you for reading.
Vincent Stevens is the senior content writer at Dherbs. As a fitness and health and wellness enthusiast, he enjoys covering a variety of topics, including the latest health, fitness, beauty, and lifestyle trends. His goal is to inform people of different ways they can improve their overall health, which aligns with Dherbs’ core values. He received his bachelor’s degree in creative writing from the University of Redlands, graduating summa cum laude. He lives in Los Angeles, CA.
