3 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Buying New Products

woman walking with shopping bags in mall.

Shopping frenzies can be fun. Nobody is denying that. We’ve all gotten on a roll, and the cashier’s till just seems to be playing our tune. We get home, shopping bags bulging out like the cheeks of a chipmunk in early autumn. Then, we go through our booty, and lo and behold, we are left wondering as to what exactly we were thinking when we bought half of this stuff. We vow to take it all back, lose track of time, and finish with a pile of barely used, if we managed to use it, stuff. And, that ain’t cool.

Bottom line, buying new things should feel exciting but also purposeful. Most of us work very hard for our money, and when we spend it, we hope that hard work will have been worthwhile. The problem is that we are pulled in all directions, marketed to non-stop and become sidetracked by what’s available, maybe on sale, fifty-percent off, as opposed to things that might be of real value to us. We want our lives to be easier, better, more fulfilled, and come to find out, it’s not more things that provide that but rather the right things.

So, before dropping a wad of cash (or sliding some cold hard plastic), maybe there are a few questions we can ask ourselves to make sure that next purchase is one of quality and not yet another thing to toss on the pile of stuff we still need to deal with.

1. Why am getting this, and/or do I already have something that’ll do the same job?

The amount of specialty items we are convinced to buy to do the same job as something else we have, only slightly differently, is … well … it’s consumerism at its most devious and profiteering. Computing devices come to mind: a desktop, a laptop, a tablet, a smartphone, an iPod, an e-reader, a watch. How many ways do we need to get on to Facebook or scroll around top-flight sites? Most of us don’t need all of these or even three of these, but somehow we end up with a collection, half of which live on the coffee table gathering dust until it’s obsolete.

In other words, we buy at a rate much faster than we use. The new tablet now has Microsoft Word – but what about that laptop sitting around with the same program (rarely used) that’ll become an even bigger waste of space than it did when the now outdated tablet was purchased? In other words, buy the new tablet and there will be the old tablet and the old laptop cluttering up space, the thought of what to do with them lingering in the back of our minds. Maybe it’s a tidbit more convenient to have whatever program the new tablet offers, but it’s dumping a lot of money on something we don’t really need, something that will cause us to undue stress over what to do with what we have.

2. Will buying this require that I buy more stuff?

That said, acquiring multiple things to perform the same basic function is not the only way we are being suckered into more spending and, ultimately, more stress as a result of it. Another great modus operandi is the product that requires us to continually buy components and extras to go on it. To continue picking on electronics, because they’ve really go us with the “latest and greatest” thing, gaming devices are an absolute money suck, aren’t they? First, we spend a ridiculous amount on this year’s model, with better graphics or some such. Then, it’s all about the freaking games…and controllers and … Seriously?

We buy things that just seem to make us buy more things until whatever deal we thought we are getting is an absolute joke. How much is each new game for that console? We can hardly buy an iPhone without either paying three times as much or signing a contract to use such-and-such service for the next two years. Cars need gasoline, oil changes, tune-ups, insurance, parking spots, washes and it keeps on going. If having something requires us to continually put more money into it, then that something ought to really be performing a service we want and need and aren’t getting.

3. What happens after I buy this, and why is that an improvement?

Another great ploy that has been thrown our way since most of us can remember is that old check-out line bait and sell. Moms know it very well, the luring rack of candy calling out to children right when moms are at their mothering weakest: Almost out of here, ready to pay, and in no position — with all those folks waiting at the end of the line — to withstand a tantrum over a candy bar. Then, we carry that bad habit over with us into adulthood. But, we know buying that junk doesn’t do us any good whatsoever. Not for hunger. Not for our health. Not for our bank account.

Presumably, we buy new (or used) things because they’ll create a positive in our lives. We buy food for the nourishment, and yes, something that tastes good is relevant as well. We buy a house for the shelter and comfort and so that we aren’t spending our money on rent that will ultimately offer no financial return. We buy new shoes because our old shoes have holes in the soles, no longer keep our feet warm, and the replacements will make this coming winter much more tolerable.  If we buy for no reason or simply out of impulse, we accumulate too much and lack appreciation for what we have, such that our possessions, or imaginary lack thereof, stress us out.

In some ways, it seems a lot to go through just to buy this week’s groceries, but that’s only because many of us have become so accustomed to buying injudiciously, a habit that quietly creates monetary problems, storage/clutter problems, and even relationship problems. In the long run, it is worth it to stop and ask ourselves what exactly we are doing.

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    Thank you so much for your e-mail, beloved! Much obliged! Glad to hear Dherbs is helping you on your wonderful journey. Death is never the answer, Beloved. Please read my new article on â€SUICIDEâ€, which explains why (if you haven't already). In re: Charka elixirs I would suggest the FOURTH CHAKRA #2 the one for the Heart as compared to "healing." My friend Julie no longer offers the 3-in-1 sessions, which were so beneficial. However, we still offer charka balancing and can do a reading by phone ($55) if you're interested.

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    Q: I am thinking about purchasing your Full Body Cleanse program, but I am concerned about one thing... too much weight lost. I am already thin, and do not want to fade away as I think three weeks on nothing but raw fruits and veggies may leave me looking sick. What is your suggestion? Are there any foods high in protein I can eat while cleansing? Also, thank you so much for your wisdom and insight. I listen to you on Blake Radio, and one of the reasons why I am buying your product is because you speak with so much passion. There are a lot of cleaning products out there, and to be perfectly honest, I have been so overwhelmed by the products out there that I ended up not buying anything. At any rate, thank you for your time and let please let me know if you have any suggestions on keeping up my weight while I cleanse.

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    If you are concerned about getting enough food while maintaining a raw foods diet over a 20-day period, make sure you are consuming plenty of healthy fats to keep you full and satiated. Avocado, Coconut Cream or Oil, Raw Nuts, Raw Seeds, are great sources of nutrients and healthy fats that will keep you from losing weight.

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    Q: Not many candy things we can eat, are these items bad to consume? Is it alright eat gummi, made of seaweed?

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    Yes! Okay to consume! Look at it, is seaweed animal-derived? Boom, there it is!

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    Q: You are absolutely right. I just read this e-mail but went to the market earlier and really had to look at myself. I have more money on my feet than I wanted to spend on what I put into myself. I am happy that I made that distinction and choose organic. Money is no option when it comes to my health anymore. Thanks for keeping it real. That?s exactly what I need! Today is my first day and I am extremely excited about living a different life. Ok, I'm ready to cleanse...again. I've decided to focus on cultivating my feminine self so I've purchased your Female Cleanse as a start. I have one question though. I was wondering if adding 15 minute sunbathing to the cleanse would be helpful? The sun appears to be quite healing so I thought it may complement the cleanse. Also, would it be unwise to start the cleanse if one is on their cycle?

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    Sunbathing won't hurt your cleanse. Not at all! And no, being on your menses also won't hurt or impair your cleanse.

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    Q: Hi Dherbs.com, I'm 17 and I'm from west Africa, I am Aquarius. I really like your medicine and advice, it reminds me of Africa! I have a heavy computer that I use for college, and it's about 3 Kgs. I also lost about 15 Kgs (65-50 kgs for 1.60m) in 1 year in Europe, and I would like to know what may cause it. my back really hurts, I try to be as healthy as possible, I'm turning vegan, I've stopped everything but dairy and, because it's everywhere and I don't have time to cook for myself every day. I also have problems at school, it's too hard to study, I always feel tired, and I've got problems with family, they want me to keep on studying things I don't like. How could you help me ? Thanks a lot and keep on doing your job, it's great!

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    Back problems also have an emotional cause. Are you bending over backwards for somebody or something? Do you feel that your back is against the wall in some regard or matter? Turning vegan is a good idea and should really improve your health. Have you read our article "DANGEROUS DAIRY" Now as far as your family wanting you to do things you don't want to do, you need to follow your heart and do you. Always be true to yourself. It's the only way magic can happen or occur.

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    Q: I am extremely interested in this product but I am not financially stable at this point. I am willing to make the sacrifice because I have heard many great things about this product. I would like to know how many times would I have to purchase the product. Because $120.00 is a large amount, but not so bad if it’s a one-time thing.

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    WE RECOMMEND DETOXING 2-4 TIMES PER YEAR!

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    Q: I'm interested in buying your products but I'm not sure which will be the appropriate one for me. I have a skin condition, which has gotten worse over the years; I have small pimples with white dots all over my arms, elbows, and now it has spread to my stomach, thighs, and buttocks. I suffer from constant constipation and I had a toxic mega colon and my appendix was removed as well. I think the reason why I am having so many problems with my skin is due to the chronic constipation I have had since I was very little. Please let me know which products I should use.

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    I RECOMMEND THE FULL BODY DETOX FOLLOWED BY THE DHERBS 10-DAY SUPREME COLON CLEANSE.