Being Positive Is A Choice

When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. This adage is old yet still relevant and meaningful.

The importance of having a positive attitude cannot be underestimated. There will always be tough situations in life. Sometimes the best-laid plans can go awry. Sometimes consequences result from unforeseeable circumstances. Sometimes every possible thing that can go wrong goes wrong, usually in the pouring rain. And sometimes you just have a really bad day. These situations highlight how easy it is for obstacles to manifest themselves in your day-to-day life. Yet they also remind us the importance of maintaining a positive attitude.

Choose to be positive

Being positive is choice and decision. Make the decision to live your life this way. You too have that choice and a can also make that decision if you haven’t already. It would be in your best interest too if you made that decision to consciously be positive. If you don’t think so, give it a try for 20 days (or 3 weeks) and see what happens.

Positivity offers many benefits and dividends to be reaped over the years of your life. Positivity raises your vibration. It enhances your aura. It attracts people to you. Positivity makes you a bright light that shines in the midst of the darkness of negativity.

To be positive means to be:

  • Constructive in intention or attitude
  • Showing optimism and confidence
  • Showing pleasing progress, gain, or improvement, with no possibility of doubt
  • Clear and definite

Attitude is a major component of success. Attitude, along with aptitude, determines altitude – how high one will fly in life. Having a positive attitude can help you be successful in every aspect of your life, especially in love, family, business, and social standing.

Just like positivity, optimism creates magnetism. Pessimism repels people. Nobody really likes to be around a pessimistic person. There’s a big difference between a pessimist and an optimist. A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity whereas an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

Doubt of positive outcomes and brighter days, realizing that doubt is the subconscious will to fail in many regards and respects.

Become clear and definite about your purpose in life. Become faithful and trustful in your abilities to live out and perform your life’s higher purpose.

Tools to be positive

Create strategies to be as positive as you can. For example:

  • Give thanks every day
  • Give back by doing a good deed every day
  • Let go…Forgive those who have hurt you
  • Ask for forgiveness of people you’ve hurt
  • Appreciate what you have
  • Compliment a stranger
  • Take in the scenery…even if it’s a flowering plant or tree in your garden
  • Donate something
  • Volunteer
  • Sing your favorite song as loud as you can
  • Smile whenever you see someone

These may seem really basic, but they also really work.

Defeat negativity

Positivity neutralizes negativity.

If person says something negative try to say something positive in response to what was said, and after a couple of rounds of going back and forth and matching negativity with positivity, the negative person would retreat.

The negative person will always retreat because they can’t feed on negativity. Soon, it was impressed upon the negative person not to talk to you, at least about negative stuff, because you don’t feed their negativity.

You defeat negativity in people by remaining positive. It eventually became very easy too because in being and remaining positive. Simply be yourself…it’s the easiest thing to do.

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2015-08-27T12:03:29+00:00

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    Q: Hi, I?m 26 years old male. I got genital herpes this summer 2007, the first outbreak was pretty itchy and painful a little, and now I got another small one. I have been reading your article and the power of mind and have been staying as positive as I can and also putting some aloe vera from the original leaf on the outbreak, and it is going away much quicker than the initial outbreak. However I am certain that I can completely get this so called incurable virus out of my system because it doesn?t make any sense to me that it would just lay there forever. Can you further guide me? I have ordered your Full Body Detox and the Anti Viral kit. You are really making a big impact on my life in a positive way and I am grateful to have found you. Just wanted to let you know that the thing I want to do the most is to become the best possible tennis player I can be.

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    We are glad to hear of the impact we are having on you. We give thanks to you for sharing! We are here for you. You can ask your health inquiries free of charge via "Ask the Herbalist"

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    Yes, you can take the Anti-Viral for a certain length of time and test negative via a doctor's test. The best way to go about receiving such results (in 6 weeks) is to first perform the Full Body Cleanse. After the Full Body Cleanse, jump right on the Anti-Viral Kit and Regimen.

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    Q: I have been diagnosed with HPV. I had a normal pap smear but tested positive for HPV. I will get paps every 6 months. I am a vegan for 10 years. Any suggestions to keep this from becoming pre-cancerous.

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    I think you should read our â€HUMAN PAPILLOMA VIRUS (HPV)†article on our site under "ARTICLES." Great information for you!

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    Continue to don't believe the hype! Herbs are benevolent foods and help you, not hurt you. Red Clover is the best herb available as the most natural source of beneficial bio-organic and available female estrogen hormone -- THE BEST! Therefore, I highly recommend Red Clover for females for every female complaint and/or to maintain female health. This herb is noble. In re fibroid tumors, we are introducing our NEW 3-Wekk Fibroid Buster Kit and Regimen to expedite the healing process of uterine-ovarian-cervical tumors and cysts. I highly recommend this kit. However, right now I would recommend the Fibroid Buster formula and Moon Cycle formula in addition to the female health tea. Your estrogen dominance is due to UN-NATURAL hormone, not natural hormone -- so needed to worry about natural sources of hormone (from herbs). Stay positive, believe in the best (especially for yourself), stay focused (on your healing), keep a positive attitude about your state of being (attitude about self), and live righteously and success in all ways is yours. There is help for you, Beloved! Read some of our health articles pertaining to female reproductive health issues. You'll find them interesting! Thank you for your interest in Dherbs.Com

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    You will know your blood is pure and that you no longer have a so-called virus when your doctor gives your a print out (readout)! If you wait and go back to your old diet, it really doesn't mean the virus will come back, it only means the test may come back positive because of what you put into your body. It's like an HIV test. If you drink milk or eat meat before you get tested, your result will automatically read POSITIVE because meat and dairy pollute the blood stream and your killer cells increase to fight off the foreign substances (meat and dairy).

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    Thank you so much for your e-mail, beloved! Much obliged! Glad to hear Dherbs is helping you on your wonderful journey. Death is never the answer, Beloved. Please read my new article on â€SUICIDEâ€, which explains why (if you haven't already). In re: Charka elixirs I would suggest the FOURTH CHAKRA #2 the one for the Heart as compared to "healing." My friend Julie no longer offers the 3-in-1 sessions, which were so beneficial. However, we still offer charka balancing and can do a reading by phone ($55) if you're interested.

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    Q: I recently purchased the FULL BODY DETOX and ANTI-VIRAL CLEANSE AND REGIMEN. I totally understand that healing is holistic and that changes must occur in diet, lifestyle, and only positive thinking will result in optimal health. I am noticing balding on the right side of my head. Of all the hair care products provided by dherbs.com, I was curious to know if using any of the dherbs.com hair herbs would affect the detox/cleansing regime? If not which would be the most effective in assisting me with hair loss? (Due to financial limitations I can't afford to purchase them all because I just purchased an alkaline water machine that set a brother back)Aside from performing the anti-viral cleanse regime. I eat plenty of cilantro and parsley, drink half my body weight in alkaline water daily, and eliminate stressors out of my life. I was interested in knowing what other follow up actions can I take to help assist me in overcoming this trial (virus) that has changed my life for the better.

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    You have the right attitude and spirit! Kudos to you. For the hair inquiry, you can drink the HAIR-SKIN-NAILS TEA during your detox. In re additional pointers, work on your mind-reprogramming it. Use daily affirmations! Reinvent yourself. Meditate! Perform yoga! perform the "SEA SALT SOAKS" daily! Keep getting knowledge! Just be creative and follow!

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    Q: Do you have any knowledge of this element, if its positive or not, the Miracle Mineral Solution.

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    I'm hearing good things about it! If interested or curious, give it a try!

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    Q: I recently purchased the FULL BODY DETOX and three of your crystal elixirs: AURA CLEANSING ELIXIR, CLEARING EMOTIONS ELIXIR, and ABUNDANCE ELIXIR, and I was wondering if it's safe to mix them together while taking the FULL BODY DETOX?

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    Q: Hello, I’ve used your FULL BODY DETOX, and continue to do so several times a year...It's amazing, thank you. I just read your March Newsletter and the "Question of the Month" was about head injuries & looking at your recommendations ( NERVES FORMULA, CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM FORMULA, etc.), I'd like to know if this is something you would recommend for my brother. He recently had his second stroke about 7 months ago, lives in Dominican Republic, isn't getting the proper care and therapy, due to financial reasons. After the 1st stroke he was doing well, walking with a limp, didn't have use of his right arm, partial use of right leg, was learning to talk again. He progressed a lot. After the 2nd stroke he was bed-ridden, wearing diapers, couldn't swallow he was like a baby again. Now he's saying words, he's walking with a cane (very slowly); he's going to the bathroom on his own. He's slowly progressing. I live in CA & I was in Dominican Republic this past Christmas. It breaks my heart to see my brother this way. He's only 48 yrs old. I'd love to send him your products if they would help & not interferre with any medications he's taking. High Blood Pressure & Heart Disease run in my family. I strongly believe in your products, and at this point my brother needs a miracle. We stay positive. Another brother of mine takes care of him & is very positive. I have faith that he can heal quicker and enjoy life for many more years. So please advise what you'd recommend. Thank you so much for your time. Peace & Blessings

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    Our products will greatly help your brother but they will interfere with the medication that will cause more strokes in your brother because all medications are poisons - PERIOD! Herbs will fight against those poisons so as to heal him. Should you choose herbs from Dherbs, I recommend CEREBRAL-VASCULAR FORMULA, CIRCUL-AID FORMULA, VEINS FORMULA, and CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM FORMULA. There is healing for your brother!

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    Q: Hi, I have been dealing with what I believe to be depression for years. I once was prescribed Zoloft and I took the meds for 1 month. I did not want to take drugs so I discontinued use. I have gone up and down in my career and love life. Now I just feel tired and feel I am steadily spiraling down. I know I have to do something, I just don't know what. I have gone to therapy several times and nothing last. I desire to have a full life and believe GOD wants us to live abundantly. I just seem to keep struggling, I will do well for a few weeks then out of nowhere I will start sabotaging things. Can you tell me what products I can use to gain my life back?

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    You can get your life back, Ma'am! First, DETOX (FULL BODY DETOX). Read our free articles while Detoxing and make sure you order and read our MENTAL SCIENCE MANUAL too which is very important in healing as it shows you how to work the mind to your benefit.

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    Q: I did the FULL BODY DETOX and ANTI-VIRAL CLEANSE AND REGIMEN back to back. I just received my test results for hsv1 and it's still positive. I followed the diet strictly and followed everything that as instructed. I did not cheat at all. I was taking Dr. Sebi's herbs for 5 months and eating a vegan diet. At month 6 I came across your website and decided to give your products a try. I truly believed I would test negative this time. Here are the viral numbers after taking Dr. Sebi's herbs for 5 months. I started getting tested after month three. 5.32 - month 3 dr. sebi 4.32 - month 4 dr sebi 3.28 - month 5 dr sebi 3.79 - month 6 today (your products). What should I do next?

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    When people have difficulty healing, there's always an emotional, mental, and psychological block (where they really believe they have a disease and if it's said to be incurable they subconsciously believe it is incurable so no matter what they do they don't get physical results). Healing must be holistic! Clearly you are getting some results with herbs (Sebi's and mine) which means the herbs are doing their part but you are not doing your part. Belief is key to healing! If you are focused on "NOT wanting" herpes, you are in fact attracting herpes to stay with you because the Universe does not process negative language, i.e. "no" "not" "non" and "don't." So when you say or focus on NOT desiring a thing, i.e. "I don't want to have herpes!" the Universe hears: "I WANT to have herpes" and gives you what you want. You have to focus only on seeing yourself healed. Herpes can't be nowhere in your thought process, vocabulary, aura, etc. and it is! You are not the first person with this problem. I deal with hundreds of other individuals whose minds are not right and they go spend thousands of dollars for physical healing but they invest 0% into mental healing. Your healing depends on sources outside of self. You are looking for test results to prove your are healed rather than knowing, seeing, and FEELING that you are healed. You are looking for external products (herbs) to heal you and not your MIND and God-force. Herbs and diet only play a role. You didn't get herpes from what you ate. It was THOUGHT, EMOTIONS, ATTITUDE, DIET, LIFESTYLE, and perhaps PAST-LIFE KARMA! Let's talk! "All healing is mental"

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    Q: My medical doctor only done a blood test that showed I had positive ANA and referred me to an arthristic doctor. My appointment is in July.

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    Only think positive and know that your can improve your state. I would suggest you begin the Full Body Detox. There is help and hope for you, Beloved! Think positive and stay focused.

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