How Meditation Changed My Life

wellbeing and healthy lifestyle concept, yoga background

I’m not an expert on meditation, and I’ve never seen the inside of a yoga studio. In fact, until one year ago, I was the last person anyone would expect to see meditating in the morning.

Not only did I believe all the usual meditation myths, but I had all sorts of preconceived ideas about the type of person who meditates. I thought I wasn’t one of them.

Instead, my idea of stress relief was alcohol — and lots of it. My morning routine consisted of waking up as late as possible and rushing to get my son ready for school and myself to work.

After coming to the realization that my life had to change drastically, and hearing a few of my mentors and other successful people share how meditation had benefited them, I decided to stop doubting long enough to try. I had nothing to lose and everything to gain.

After my first meditation last January, I went on to complete 270 sessions last year (I know the exact number thanks to a handy feature in my meditation app). But that doesn’t mean I took to it immediately. It wasn’t easy at first. On top of all the mental blocks, my years of chronic lower back pain made sitting in lotus position painful and distracting. A 10-minute session felt like an eternity.

But I kept at it, and it didn’t take long for me to notice changes. They were subtle at first, but the longer I kept at it, the more obvious the positive effects of meditation became. On the days that I didn’t meditate, I started to feel like something was missing.

Here are six of the ways my life is better after a year of almost daily meditation (and the science to back up the benefits).

1. I smile more often.

When I started meditating, I was on an emotional roller coaster, and struggling after having lost my job. As I continued to meditate, my outlook on my situation, and on life in general, became more positive. Many people who meditate find that mindfulness meditation provides major benefits to mood and mindset.

2. I sleep better.

Research suggests that mindfulness meditation helps fight insomnia and improves sleep, a fact I can personally confirm. For several years, I took prescription medication to fall asleep. Now that I’ve learned how to slow down my busy mind and focus on my breathing, I consistently fall asleep within a few minutes without medication.

3. I am more focused at work and at home.

Before I started meditating, I had problems concentrating and found it increasingly difficult to stay focused on a single task. And when I wasn’t working, my mind was constantly racing. I was often lost in thought, fidgety, and constantly glancing at my phone. I was physically present, but mentally I was always somewhere else.

Soon after I started meditating, I started noticing improvements in my attention and focus. Now I’m able to stay focused on one task at a time, and to be relaxed and in the moment when I’m spending time with my family and friends.

4. I’m more self-aware.

Self-awareness is one of the four main elements of mindfulness meditation, and its benefits have had a major impact on my thinking and choices. It has helped me find clarity about what’s most important to me and to get my priorities in order. It’s also helped me to better understand and utilize my strengths and passions.

5. I’m a better parent.

Even if you’re usually even-tempered, sometimes the tiniest thing can trigger an outburst of emotion and frustration. Before I started meditating, on the days I was running late while getting my son ready for school, I’d get irritated and snap at him. Now, I’m much more relaxed, and I’ve stopped snapping. Even if we‘re running late, incidents like this no longer trigger the same response. I recommend meditation to any parent who will listen, as we’re continuing to find evidence that mindful parenting improves parent-child relationships.

6. I feel better about myself.

For many years, I struggled with low self-esteem, lacking confidence in my skills and abilities. I let my self-limiting beliefs keep me stuck in a job I hated, which held me back from realizing my full potential. Meditation helped me stop fixating on the negative and increase my confidence. I’m developing a healthier sense of self and identity — a benefit that can be directly attributed to mindful meditation.

These are just some of the ways my life is better now that I practice daily meditation. It’s become the foundation of my morning routine — a set of daily rituals that are helping me to become my best self and turn the life of my dreams into reality. You can have that, too.

They key? Stop letting your doubts or discomfort keep you inside a box you don’t even like. Give meditation a try. If you struggle to find the time, remember that your life is about what’s important, not just what’s urgent. The work you put into making meditation a daily habit will be so worth it.

I can’t promise that your experience will be exactly like mine, but I have no doubt that a daily meditation practice will make your life significantly better. After seeing the improvements in my life this year, I can’t wait to see what’s next.

That’s why I’ve challenged myself to meditate every day of 2016. And if I can do this, anyone can. Whether you already meditate or you’re going to start now, share your commitment to join me in this challenge here.

2016-02-09T10:56:29+00:00

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    Q: First off, I want to say that I am TRULY grateful for the work that you are doing. Words cannot convey my sincere gratitude. I will continue to tell my loved ones about the wonderful products, services, and information that you provide. I read your article on ADD/ADHD and was deeply saddened by the harm that is being done to our children. A very dear friend of mine has an 11 year old son that was diagnosed and is currently on medication for this so called condition. I have a 5 year old daughter who just started kindergarten. My daughter is HIGHLY sensitive and gets her feelings hurt very easily. She had two melt downs in class the first week of school. When she was 3 years old, a psychiatrist who was observing her behavior, told me that she thought she may be ADD/ADHD but I did not receive it. My question is how do we, as parents, who are still working in the matrix, educate our children. As a single mom, I do not currently possess the luxury to home-school my daughter and at the same time, I am not pleased with the public school (fool) system, or even private school that still follows the same guidelines and curriculum. Any suggestions?

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    You EDUCATE your children by living TRUTH, being the example of righteous living, personal responsibility, personal accountability, integrity, morals, ethics, etc. BE ABOUT IT! Children learn by watching and then emulating! LIVE IT! The examples from home are stronger than what's learned at school and your child admires you more than any other person. Thank you kindly for your words which are greatly appreciated, Beloved. Thank you so much!

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    Q: I was online searching for some natural treatments for hair growth in Black Men when I came across your article. I must say that I believe it was so on point that I decided not to look any further. I'm 44 years of age and started noticing my hair thinning when about 12 years ago. I was one of those that you wrote about in your article chasing a lifestyle that is no longer an interest to me. I did fall into some bad habits that were not good for my health off and on over the past 15 years or so more off than on. My body type I would describe as athletic. I'm tone, and strong when I exercise regularly. I'm about 150lbs @ 5'11". My diet is mostly vegetables but from time to time I feel I have to eat fish or chicken. Not necessarily prepared in the healthiest way I'm sure. I just got out of one of my "on" spells so to speak. Meaning the drinking of beer and cigarettes. I've been smoking and drinking beer now since September 2006 after not having done anything but live healthy for six years before that. As soon as my wife and I came back to the states and started working and runnign again these old destructive habits appeared again in my life. I only blame myself though. Right now my hair and skin suffer from the chemical poisoning from the habits that I just mentioned. I am prepared to take your advice about righteous living to heart and start fresh again. Is there a mild remedy that can work with me to stimulate the re-growth of my hair in the spots where it is balding in that classic balding pattern? I am generally very healthy when I doing right and even now rarely get sick. But my sickness manifest in stress and bad habits to num the pain of having to live this way when don't really want to. I quit the job that I've been working for the past 4 years for that reason and have been blessed to have some time not to grind everyday chasing after money. Now is a crucial time of healing for me, and I must take full advantage of the time. Moderation is in order for whatever you can suggest for me in the way of herbal remedies. I am sure that you can prescribe a simple overall regiment for my overall health based on what I have shared with you with an emphasis on the hair and skin. Again, thank you for writing the article. Call or write. The sooner the better.......Thank You!!

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    I would say first detox with the FULL BODY DETOX and get your diet right CONSISTENTLY! Constantly clean your temple! This is key! Next, perform the TOTAL MALE CLEANSE. After this, do a daily regimen of HAIR SKIN NAILS FORMULA, ELECTRIC GREENS CELL FOOD, KHEMETIAN GOLD, and MSM SULFUR. Forgive yourself of past self-inflicted harm! Stop worrying about your hair loss. Start visualizing your hair growing back. If you can see it, you will achieve it! The mind is all and problems and remedies begin in the mind! BTW: we offer phone consultations if you're interested.

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    Q: Greetings Brother, first I would like to commend you on your work and commitment. I am fascinated with some of this information and I look forward to learning much about wellness and spirituality, and then teaching truth to all that I can. My question is concerning the elixers. I recently purchased elixers for the FIFTH CHAKRA and the SEVENTH CHAKRA to "try" the product before purchase of the rest. I am just getting into chakra and kundalini meditation here in the last few months. When is the best time to take the elixers for maximum benefit? Please keep in mind that I have not yet purchased the FULL BODY DETOX kit and I am not sure how this will skew my results. Any direction is much appreciated.

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    Thank you for your words, Beloved! You can take the elixirs anytime you feel the need or inclination to take them. I take them throughout the day myself. Love water changed my life! Love water is crystal-imbued water that I was drinking daily and in which greatly opened up my heart chakra. You will experience great things during the FULL BODY DETOX and taking the elixirs during the cleanse. Peace and Love!

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    Q: I was most impressed by your website. The information to support your products and your obvious interest in informing the public caught and kept my attention. As I searched further into Black Seed Tea, the reason for my visit, I noticed your product ALCOHOL BUSTER. The comment of "on the metaphysical level, alcohol consumption also impairs the human aura" although very non clinical, is very much my way of thinking, it got my attention. I read as far as the disclaimer, "the formula does not have the power to prevent consumption of alcohol as only will power and a made up mind can do this." Here's where I step out of character and find myself writing this e-mail. It has been my experience while working with people from all walks of life, who are members of any 12 step program, that a reference to will power as a prevention of anything is a two edged sword. While I agree will power is important in abstention, I believe the person is benefited by using their personal will power to seek help, to commit to recovery, to take care of the physical, mental and emotional bodies. I don't believe "human" will power is the power that prevents consumption. The suggestion that "will power and a made up mind can prevent consumption of alcohol" to a person with an addiction could become a deadly idea. This of course is my opinion, do with it what you feel is appropriate.

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    I feel you in where you're coming from, but I truly believe and know human willpower plays a role in prevention and healing of all disease. The strongest thing humans have is a will. Will meshes with desire in many cases. Both are strong in humans. Now, you're dealing with a person with addiction in regards to your last statement and I can totally understand where you are coming from but the sick person is not exempt from any laws of healing. There is no real or true healing absent willpower to do a thing, a beneficial thing. The addicted person must be first dealt with on the physical and psychological levels and then the spiritual and energetic (getting to the root of the addiction: perhaps a 2nd chakra problem or something hanging over from a past life). All addiction points to spiritual void and therefore the only ultimate healing here is mental or spiritual via mental. As you know, it's mind-body-spirit and all must be dealt with for healing. Will is important in abstention but we don't won't people to focus on abstaining which is usually converted into "can't have" by the addicted person. We want people to only focus on the good, the healthy, what they need and require, not what they don't want or can't have because their subconscious mind will create the situations and circumstances by which these people end up consuming the thing that is insalubrious for them. It never fails. I grew up with an alcoholic mother and plenty of other alcoholics. We want people to have and use willpower to GO FOR the best things for them, will in DOING the right and healthy things for themselves. All healing is ultimately within self. As a man thicket so is he! Peace be unto you fellow metaphysician!

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    Q: My 14 year old cousin's mom has checked her into to mental hospital. This entire school year she has ben dealing with alot going into high school, and other teen age issues. Her birth father is not in the home but, her mom has a pretty good man, that steps up, and does a good job with her two children. However, she has been battling with her weight, although she wasn't over weight she didn't feel thin enough like the other children at her school. Her mom found Hydroxycut in her room, and all hair feel out. This past weekend went to her mom's boyfriend and told him she tried to overdose on pills to kill herself, because of all the pressure. Her mom had her in therapy behind the weightloss issue, she thought she was ok, until this last suicidal mission. Is there any help or advice you can render. I told her mom that the hospital thing was a horrible idea due to the medication that they will be administering and other brain washing methods they use to further F*** you up so that when you are release you a labeled, and sure to be crazy. D-Herbs at 14 this is insane, her mom has given up hope, and gave her chiild into the hands of the enemy. I am conscious and try to talk to her but it doesn't seem to work.

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    That's an unfortunate situation. Have the mother read the information on Dherbs.com or schedule a consultation so she can speak with me live and direct. These are the only ways I know to help, Beloved. I'm also about to write an article on DEPRESSION, and the DANGERS OF ANTIDEPRESSANTS. Hang in there and know that your cousin wrote her own life script (before she was born), so she is gaining an experience so as to learn a life lesson for her soul's purpose. It doesn't make sense on a lower level, but on a higher level, it all will add up and make sense. God's hand is over everything, even those things that appear bad.

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    Q: I have been experiencing very trying health issues for many years (over 25 years). The trouble began when my gall bladder was removed 26 years ago. I had mood swings, lack of energy, and severe diarrhea. Approximately 13 years ago I had an additional surgery for an umbilical hernia. Due to pre-op tests, my physician diagnosed me with thyroid disease and placed me on synthroid. This medication dramatically improved the digestive issues I had experienced for many years. I had very loose bowels when menstruating and when I was ill. I am overweight and have dealt with weight issues all my life. Three years ago I had a scare where I thought I experienced a heart attack. I spent three days in the hospital and learned of many health risks. My triglycerides were extremely high along with my sugar being borderline. I have been tested for diabetes on a number of occasions in my life but never show to be. There are numerous cases of diabetes in my family. My mother and one sister are insulin dependent and one other sister is on some form of pill medication for diabetes. At that time, I gave up sugar and began a regime at the gym. The have not eaten any sweets other than what I get in a little ketchup occasionally or some other kind of sauce that may contain some sugar. I have gone to the gym with minimal results in losing weight. I had a total hysterectomy six weeks ago. My regular GP has been on vacation and I've been dealing with one of her associates. This dr. sent me in for glucose tolerance and she has since diagnosed me as Type II Diabetic. She put me on a medication called "Metformin" and has me taking a 500 mg pill twice daily. I have only been on this medication for three days. I have been very careful to eat only what they say I can. I am experiencing the same issues as before with the diarrhea. Last night I was up all night with this and it is like water coming out of me. I am unable to find a physician who understands that I want to lose the weight, but cannot when I'm constantly dehydrated and feeling lethargic. When I have this constant problem, I am not able to do what I need to do for my overall health. Sorry to be so wordy but I wanted to explain the full extent of what I am experiencing. My friend told me to get on this website and explain my issues. He feels that you may be able to guide me in the direction of a natural product or products that can help me to have normal bowel movements and therefore begin doing the physical exercise that is needed for me to reduce my chances of becoming an insulin dependent diabetic.

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    I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO FIRST TRY THE FULL BODY DETOX (TAKING THINGS ONE DAY AT A TIME). AFTER THIS CLEANSE, I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO PERFORM THE PANCREAS CLEANSE AND REGIMEN . LET'S TAKE THIS SLOWLY AND GET YOU BACK TO OPTIMAL HEALTH AND WELL-BEING. FIRST THINGS FIRST, OKAY? ALSO, PLEASE CONSIDER A CONSULTATION AS THERE'S ONLY SO MUCH TIME I CAN GIVE TO RESPONDING VIA E-MAIL DUE TO ALL THE E-MAILS WE GET DAILY.YOU CAN HEAL. JUST CONCENTRATE ON HEALING, NOT DIABETES. LET'S START HERE, OKAY?