Q: I am beginning a career as an artist but I am a single mother. I have worked in many corporate offices as a temp. I have attempted attending schools for things I thought would make me money. I really want to be a successful artist but I also have to take care of my son and work on art and work on my freelance contracts. I do not make the money I want or live where I want to live yet. I help my mother with her bills, I buy groceries and cook for everyone, I work at my uncles center for children and out of an art gallery at the homeless shelter as well as attend courses regarding the art business. I am doing it all without acquiring debt but I would like to know if it sounds like I am doing enough. I live a very lonely life, no real friends, no boyfriend. The only "kicks" I get are smoking a little weed and drinking a little wine here and there. I take my son to school and pick him up daily. I made sure I got him into one of the top schools in my city I also try to teach him and read to him as much as possible and keep him out of trouble. It gets hard. How do I stay motivated? I think the thing that bothers me most is uncertainty and the lack of money I have right now. How do I get to the next level financially without acquiring debt or having to fight traffic and deal with crazy attitudes every day?
I apologize for the very delayed response, we have been experiencing technical difficulties. I first would like to commend you on your ability to prioritize in such an effective manner. Your life sounds like one lived in great service to and love of others. However, it is also VERY important that you receive energy from others so that you do not become too imbalanced. Balance in life is crucial in all things (spiritual, physical, cognitive, relational etc).
Your loneliness is your heart's/spirit's way of asking for relational balance. It will continue asking louder and cause difficulties in other areas of your life/being until you create this balance. Your substance use (and thank you for your honesty) only temporarily masks the loneliness, but drugs can only make it worse. You see, drugs block us from becoming skilled at creating healthy relationships because they numbs us by turning down the volume on our brain's natural pleasure-centers.
Additionally; keep in mind: Your first fruits are always to be consumed by YOU! You must always place yourself first, even before your son. In example: Airlines direct you that in the event of trouble you are to place your own oxygen mask on first. You can be of no use to your son if you are unconscious due to lack of oxygen. Similarly, if you give all of your fruits to others, you will have no "seed" or energy to produce more fruit.
You must give to you first! Then you have the energy to give to others. It teaches others how to give to you, how to love you, how to respect you and your needs while giving them the opportunity to reciprocate by giving to you. This is how we balance giving. Don't worry if it feels selfish at first, it definitely will seem that way, to you and possibly others. Its just the change of tides making everyone feel a bit uncomfortable - but this will balance out in time as you become more skilled at receiving and feel more worthy of others' care .
I realize you have asked several other questions, however I have addressed the one I feel will help unblock your energy and allow you to see that the answers to the other questions have always been right before you. We are born with everything we need to accomplish our goals, we only need to focus on the proper utilization of these gifts and resources. If you couple this skill with fearlessness and belief in oneself, you will win.
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Life is simply beautiful!
Enjoy your Self!
Q: Hi, I'm a 36 year old African/American woman with 4 children whose been trying to lose weight off and on for the past 16 years. I lose the weight but then I gain it right back after I go off of my diet. I know that I need a good body/colon cleanse, but what I need to learn how to do is to eat the right food's to keep my body healthy. I've been conditioned to eat the foods that I do eat, I need to know how do I go about "de-programming" myself from the bad food's and program myself to want and crave the healthy one's? I'm open to any suggestion's you have, even using crystals and meditation. Thank you.
Time is limited here in "Ask the Herbalist" so I humbly request you consider a full length health consultation. However, I can tell you that you'd greatly benefit from a FULL BODY DETOX Cleanse.
Q: Peace kin, You sent me info on EMF'S BUT I need to know the names of the plants, and crystals that will help me. And is This Product In Your Reasoning Good
RESPONSE: All crystals (especially black ones) and all plants help against EMF.
Q: Besides its contraceptive properties, what are the other benefits of the Mexican Wild Yam Root?
Wild Yam is a great source of natural progesterone hormonal precursor. It helps dissolve gas pockets in colon, helps against spasms, (especially abdominal spasms), balances estrogen and progesterone levels, helps to regulate the female menstrual cycle, tones and nourishes female breasts, and alleviates pain (headache).
Q: Peace. First off I would like to say that I am in love with your site. I started my children on a vegan diet last year, but they're lacking a very large amount of nutritional needs, including myself. I saw yours children's multivitamins, will it be strong enough to get my children back on a healthy tract? They're age 2,4,and 5. One more question. I ordered the full body cleanse. I also have an issue with my skin. I have cysts all over my body covering some of my hair particles and when they come to a head, besides the pain, its full of puss n there's a large amount of baby fine hairs that come out with it. I've been suffering with this since I was 14 yrs old. Can you help my situations?
A: A vegan diet provides all the nutrients one needs. Be sure that you're all consuming a good amount of fruits and vegetables, as these foods predominately provide all the nutrients that the body needs. You can give the children the multivitamin to help boost their immune system. We recommend doing the Full Body Cleanse first, followed by the 10 Day Blood Cleanse. Severe skin issues are related to a problem within the blood, cleansing it is best. Continuing with the Blood and Lymphatic formula is also ideal. Please take time to read the following article: Skin Disorder = Blood Disorder -http://www.dherbs.com/articles/skin-disorder-252.html Product Links: Full Body Cleanse - http://dherbs.com/store/full-body-cleanse-p-1.html 10 Day Blood Cleanse -http://dherbs.com/store/10-day-supreme-blood-cleanse-p-448.html Blood & Lymphatic Formula -http://www.dherbs.com/store/blood-lymphatic-formula-p-9.html
Q: Will I have to purchase 3 CHILDREN DETOX (liquid extracts) (one for each of my children) Ages (3) (5) (10). Thank you.
You could probably get away with buying 2 kits instead of 3 kits.
Q: My soon to be three year old son will be having surgery next week on Tuesday to correct an umbilical hernia he's had since birth. I know he will need something for pain relief. Most doctor's recommend children's Tylenol...What do you suggest?? I will be giving him the "Children's Detox Kit" soon after to speed up healing and detoxification.
Poor little boy! That pain will be recorded in his cellular memory. For pain, make him a tea consisting of white willow bark, black willow bark, meadowsweet, and feverfew. Herbs probably won't do much justice to quell his pain though. After the surgery, he will need the Children's Detox so you have the right idea for your son after the surgery.
Q: I still have my CHILDREN DETOX (liquid extracts) in the liquid form that I purchase from your company awhile back. Can I still use it? And is there somewhere that I can get the directions to it again.
YES, YOU CAN STILL USE IT. FOR ANOTHER SHEET YOU'LL HAVE TO CALL THE OFFICE AND INQUIRE ABOUT HAVING US MAIL YOU ANOTHER ONE!
Q: I have a 7 yr old niece who has lupus. Will the CHILDREN DETOX (liquid extracts) help her?
Q: I need to know if you have an herb for children that can help them stay focus? I thought I saw an herb for that but cannot find it again.
We have an inhaler called "Focus" that is inhaled. Inhalers There are no herbs for children to help them focus. There are herbs for the brain however. With children it's usually they are bored and thus do not focus. Read our article on ADD (â€Attention Deficit Disorderâ€) under ARTICLES section on our site.
Q: My husband and I would like to have children. Recently I have been experiencing periods every other week. I am 41 years old. The doctor took a FSH test and said my levels were high and my ovaries were no longer producing eggs. Is there something that can be done with the formula's that you have which will help me to still get pregnant?
Simply perform: FULL BODY DETOX, TOTAL WOMAN CLEANSE, FERTILITY CLEANSE Husband should perform: FULL BODY DETOX, TOTAL MALE CLEANSE Please read some of our free health articles and please consider a 1-hour health consultation ($100) so as to get to the root of the problem (emotional, psychological, mental, etc.)
Q: My husband and I would like to have children. Recently I have been experiencing periods every other week. I am 41 years old. The doctor took a Follicle Stimulating Hormone (FSH) test and said my levels were high and my ovaries were no longer producing eggs. Is there something that can be done with the formula's that you have which will help me to still get pregnant?
Nothing to worry about! You guys need to first detox (FULL BODY DETOX) and then (your husband)do the TOTAL MALE CLEANSE and (you) should peform the TOTAL WOMAN CLEANSE. and then YOU need to perform the FERTILITY CLEANSE. I would also suggest you guys start reading some of our free health articles (i.e. "IMPOTENCE INFERTILITY AND STERILITY"). Knowledge is Power! Drink JACKRABBIT TEA on all these cleanses too!
Q: Do you have a product for children with possible sinus conditions? My son who allegedly has sickle cell I believe has possible sinus issues. He does not eat a lot meat or dairy either. He eats healthy most days. Peace & love
Q: My womb has been tilted all my life. I have no children as of yet. What causes the womb to be tilted? My cycle just ended and I'm experiencing some discomfort in my ovaries. I haven't had this pain in my ovaries in a while. I also want to have a child though I've been celibate for almost 2yrs.
Q: My daughter was diagnosed with G6PD. I have heard of some children growing out of it. What nutrients could she possible be missing? What can we start supplying her body with, so she can possibly grow out of it?
I would recommend Moringa Extract, Vitamin C Extract, Kemetian Gold, and Children's Iron Formula (see Childen's Formula on our site) to provide added nutrition. I would also recommend our Enzyme Formula (one capsule a day). G6PD is an enzyme deficiency. There is help for your daughter Beloved!
Q: My son has now been given a diagnosed of Aspergers by the school system. When I took him to the doctors for a second opinion, they agreed. I do believe he lacks some social skills. I read the articles you ran on Autism which lead to my below questions. The "Magical Alchemical Elixir", and "(6) Sixth Chakra Elixer", Can you explain how I should administer the above? Do I give them to him at the same time? I drop him off at 6 am, and do not see him again until 6 pm. What type of dosage will I need to give? He is going to the six grade, but schools will not allow him to take supplements in school.
The instructions are on the bottle of each product. You can add them to a glass of water (perhaps a water bottle), and the child can drink it before he exits the car for school. I'd suggest 2 dropperfuls of both formulas simultaneously. But the chakra elixir can be taken sublingually.
Q: Is the children's sugar buster the same as the Elixir that was talked about in the Attention Deficit Disorder Article
No, Beloved! They are NOT the same! Different products.