Due to what I did with women in previous experiences, from time to time I …

Due to what I did with women in previous experiences, from time to time I tend to think, and worry about what my woman might do. She’s a wonderful lady-she really is; and she’s been upfront, and
honest from the get go. But, I can get a little pessimistic about the relationship. But, I do that because I know how slick women can be. I’ve been on the receiving end of that slickness! So again,
from time to time, that creeps up in my thoughts. And yes, I have been absolutely committed to her as well.

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What you focus on with emotion is what you attract according to the law of attraction. If you continue to give these negative thoughts, your focus you will manifest this outcome. You have to
consciously change this pattern to get out of your loop. When you feellike consciously, remind yourself of what you DO want. Allow yourself to create what you really want, which is to feel calm and
in love with your amazin woman.

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