I have been married 5 years and my husband and I are not seeing eye …

I have been married 5 years and my husband and I are not seeing eye to eye after the birth of our two kids. It seems like he has drawn farther away from me. It could be stress or job related
issues, but the fact remains that he does not communicate to me about anything important in his life. He just has a closed shell when it comes to telling me things. Also, he stop paying the the rent
for a while now. I don’t know if this has anything to do with me making more than him financially. How can I approach my husband, with out hurting his ego and get him to talk to me about anything?
But, I must say we are not affectionate to each other only when it comes to be sexual. What can I do?

Answer by Dherbs

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Sometimes men feel like an outsider after children are born. It’s because the wife has to give the children so much of her attention. He cant help feeling a little resentful or jealous. If you
want him to open up. Give him some attention. Tell him you appreciate him often. Kiss him and love on him too. Men also shut down when they are not getting enough sex. Tell him when you feel sexual.
Tell him you want him, and are attracted to him. This will help him to feel close to you again, and he will begin to share himself with you again. Treat him the way you want to be treated.

Sending love and light.

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2013-06-13T06:08:43+00:00

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