I know you are an herbalist and I have read your articles on relationships, but …

I know you are an herbalist and I have read your articles on relationships, but I really need to discuss an issue with a conscious person like yourself. I have a friend who is a conscious brother,
he made it known that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, claims he’s to busy, but he is into having a spiritual sexual relationship(releasing energy he says on a spiritual level). My thought is
that in order to connect with someone totally on a sexual level they should be a unit to experience this sacred sexual experience he refers to, otherwise to me it seems a very clever why to have sex
without the commitment of being in a relationship.

I would really appreciate your thoughts.

Answer by Dherbs

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Dudes can be so clever! He sounds like a Taurus! LOL!

He’s using spirituality to justify having sex with you. There’s no spirituality with a casual sex partner. This practice is deep and creates serious energetic connections via the chakras. There’s no
connection without being a unit and having a commitment. My motto is: no sex absent love and commitment (unless both parties agree)! Hope this helps you out!

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