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New Green shake; Kale, Spinach, Chia Seeds, Lime , Agave, Jalepeno<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Good morning world! \u00a0Yes I\u2019m young fly and free, feeling good and all about it. \u00a0All about what you ask? \u00a0This life baby. The Dherbs Get Wit It and Go Lifestyle. \u00a0I\u2019m seeing the changes and feeling awesome about them. \u00a0I know its because I\u2019ve learned that its not always about how fast you get to the finish line as long as you get there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some may say that\u2019s no way for a \u201cwinner\u201d to think but that\u2019s exactly how I\u2019m beating the curse of obesity that has stricken my family for generations. I remember being a kid and hearing my younger brother say \u201cI just don\u2019t want to be fat\u201d he was thin at the time and still is and I was well, fat. Lol. At the time I didn\u2019t realize that he was taking note of something that had completely gone over my head. I knew I wasn\u2019t skinny but I never saw fat as a problem. I realize now of course not that fat is bad, but more so that people, even when you are open and need to hear the truth of your situation\u2026 they aren\u2019t going to give it to you and sometimes they may think that you;re happy and fine where you are. Or is that only what we project.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m no gullible tree hugging, corner sitting, thumb sucking fat boy who needs you to validate how great he is. And though that sounds like confidence its also a part of the shield that kept me protected and hidden. Away from other peoples opinions and ideals. Being fat had become my security blanket and a dam keeping me from my greatest moments. You see, again, we tend to design our lives in part by what others may want for us or think for us so when you see me on a stage or television show, speaking to a audience of 5000 or even hightailing it from one end of the platform to the other, because I did it with ease it seemingly is the heart of my life goals met. Absolutely not, not so. You want to know one of my dearest dreams since the age of 14? I wanted to be able to cross my leg like a gentleman. Yup, that simple, but never could up until now. I wanted to run without the fear of not being able to move\u2026I\u2019m doing it now, I wanted to walk in a store and not feel the prejudices often felt by the heavy set community or have to bear the comments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If we could only rally on the steps of our nations capitol like the blacks and the gays for our freedom from the oppressing cheese burger and it Work! That freedom from the bodies we\u2019ve felt captive by for so many years would simply melt away leaving only the brighter better you that you long to nurture. But naaaaw baby, you got to earn every pant and dress size you are willing to do the work to get into and keep. The Willing working warrior is who becomes celebrated however. You have to be willing to do the work that make our heart satisfied and fuels the engine of your dreams. One foot in front of the other, one failing attempt after the other, the lonely and often felt abandonment that comes with shifting your life and trajectory. This triumph that I\u2019m feeling this morning was EARNED and I can\u2019t stop smiling about it. I finally did a ice by side look at where I am now and where I started a few years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was rapped and filled with ego so I hadn\u2019t any idea the dire straights I was truly intermingled with. \u00a0I was a ticking time bomb. \u00a0The consequences of my affair with food was nearly fatal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n